Thursday, March 19, 2009

Kerri is so very...

We sing all types of rhymes for Kerri. Kerry Bo Berry. Kerry Cherry pock a perry... She smiles and laughs and coos and giggles. My favorite is when Mags sings to her. She makes up the cutes Kerry songs and laughs and really loves playing with her. When Kerri smiles Mags just laughs. Maggie also jumps in the crib with B and reads her books and "teaches" her things. It is so darn cute. Just the other day she was trying to teach her how to climb out of the crib. Not so darn cute.

Taking it one day at a time.

Today we were on our way to lunch. While we were driving Mags was telling a story about when she saw Maura in the hallway at school, but Maura did not see her. I asked her why she did not call out to her. She said "I was being shy that day." She proceeded to tell me that sometimes she is shy. I thought it would be a good time to tell them that I too am shy sometimes. I was explaining how in certain situations mommy is nervous when she meets new people.

Maura: "Were you nervous no one would play with you?"

Me: "Yes, sometimes when Mommy meets new people she is nervous they won't want to play with me or talk to me."

Maura: "When I first started in Mrs. Riehs' class I was shy too Mama. I was afraid no one would play with me, but I just took it one day at a time. That's what you need to do Mama, just take it one day at a time."

Monday, March 16, 2009

Playing with the big kids

We have been staying at Sean's parents' house while our house is on the market (which, thankfully, it sold on Friday the 13th... just 10 days on the market... sigh of relief.). The neighbors have three girls. One in 4th grade, one in 7th grade, and one in 12th grade. The two younger ones have played with the girls on a few occasions. Maura is thrilled. She loves being with them. When I bring her home from school, she wants to get together with her new friends. i have to explain that they are in school. She wants to invite them to dinner, and of course, to her birthday party. She showed them her "bedroom." and her playroom. She offers them food and drink. She really thinks they are her new best friends.

I am just happy to have free babysitters, I mean nice neighbors!

Sticking up for her sister.

Today at the gym babysitting Bridget was doing her usual screaming and grunting. The babysitter (who is wonderful) asked B to stop screaming. Mags said, "Cozy, she is not screaming; that's just the way she talks." So true!

Monday, March 2, 2009

She gets it.. kind of

We all have high hopes for our kids. We hope they are smart, funny, happy, sweet, etc. One of the qualities I hope my daughters have is an empathy. I try to explain to them how others are feeling, how we should act/react, but I took child psychology. I know that empathy is a quality that children cannot truly master (or begin to even realize) until age 7 or 8. Still, I try.

The other day we were driving somewhere; we are always driving somewhere, and I told the girls that Miss Meghan had her baby. Maura asked what it was and what her name was. After I told Maura a little about Riley, she said, "Mom, I think we should make her a meal. macaroni and cheese." I have to say I was proud of her. I was glad she thought of doing something nice for someone else. I was a little proud of myself too. Yes, I am setting a good example, I thought.

Well, later that day I was dropping a different meal off to the Smith's house. Maura said, "I said I wanted to make a meal for Meghan, not Jenn." I try!

Never been so happy for a dull day.

We have been so busy these last few weeks getting our house ready to sell that we have really done nothing but that every weekend and many weeknights. I knew we were busy, but I did not realize how much I missed simple family time until last night. Sean and I had spent the day doing yard work (nothing like yard work in 30 degree weather) and last minute touches on the house. I about burst into tears of happiness when I realized that all seven (including Jameson... I am not pregnant again) of us were in the kitchen getting ready to have dinner together. We truly have not done that in a long time. I was even so much more excited to realize that today we would be going to church together as a family then doing basically nothing all day. Sean and I even sat down together for lunch and read the paper. It sure was good times. I only made one quick trip to the other house today to take the trash to the curb. Unfortunately, the 8-10 inches of snow may mean the trip was pointless, but it may also mean Sean will be snowed in and not able to go to work and we can have another boring family day. Yeah!

Sunday, March 1, 2009

You make me laugh

Daddy made Kerri laugh for the first time yesterday. She has been smiling like crazy lately. Her whole face smiles; I love it. She has also been cooing. But the laughing is new. She is still such a good baby. Our lives have been pretty crazy these last few weeks, and she just goes along with the flow. You can sit her in her bouncey seat for hours, and she will just watch the whirlwind that is her family go by. She loves to be held, but doesn't mind being put down. She is awake more and more during the day and still puts in her full night of sleep. I appreciate that God has blessed us with easy babies. I appreciate that God has blessed us with healthy babies. And I appreciate it that God has blessed me with a husband who loves to see his daughters laugh.